How It Works After Youve Joined
Most clients like to have one or two confirmed introductions
before they leave MPIs home/office. In general, most clients
meet (say) three clients in the first month of membership. But MPI follows your instructions and moves at whatever pace you are
comfortable with and as appropriate matches arise.
 Usually the client arranges and follows through on a meeting.
A time and place should be made for a
face-to-face meeting; a simple invitation for a coffee date
(assuming you both still wish to meet after chatting). The man
should be prepared to pay for the drinks. The meeting must be in a
public place. Usually the lady will choose a place she feels
comfortable in e.g. a coffee shop, a quiet restaurant.
If at the first date you think there is mutual chemistry, or even
just some common interest as friends, MPI recommends you can both Make a
Date for a second meeting. The second meeting must be at least
one day after the first meeting (i.e. not on the same day as the
first meeting).
Feedback should be in your own style, not only via SMS, and include:
- How long together on first meeting
- Have you made a time to meet again?
- Would you like to meet again?
- What features / qualities you like in the client
- If you would like the next free introduction
It is important to advise MPI if you would like to meet again
so MPI can encourage you to then "get together" for another
meeting!
You need to provide written (email, fax, letter) pleasant feedback
after each introduction or you cannot request further free
introductions. It is better for you to also, at the end of
feedback, provide a summary of who is the most appropriate for
you so far.
MPI can provide you with pro-active feedback to be of more
assistance to you. If unsure about the first meeting MPI
recommends a second meeting.
If you are "seeing"/dating a client, it is better that you
also advise MPI of this so MPI is not inadvertently working
against you.
When you are dating a client it is not necessary to inform
via feedback as MPI does not "micro-manage" clients' lives. You
can, if you wish, keep in touch say, via member's email
(private) address.
If you had 3 or more meetings/dates with a client, it is not
necessary to state how long was spent on dates or what you do on
each date.
In the first couple of weeks it is best to phone with
pleasant feedback. No feedback should be sent via SMS as I cannot print
in hardcopy to save in your file. Ongoing feedback must be
written via email, fax or post. You should also provide written pleasant
feedback after each introduction, and from time to time an up-to-date
summary of which clients have been the most appropriate for you
so far.
At any time, for any reason, you can instruct MPI to put your
file on hold. Your file can stay on hold for up to seven
years. A fee may be payable if you later wish to "reactivate" your file and update your
profile.
The maximum reactivation fee is around half the current joining
cost. The fee is based on the amount of work involved including
whether or not you require another personal consultation.
There is a lower reactivation fee, around one quarter the
current joining fee, if:
a) you joined less than 2 years ago, and
b) you do not require another personal consultation, and
c) you
have proven to be pleasant and realistic.
Note: reactivation fees include pro-active "live"
introductions, if you so require, same as when you first
joined...no waiting!!!
How will I know when I've met the right person?
You will normally put your file on hold when youve found
someone you want to be with, someone special to you! It will
usually be someone you dont just meet and have a quick coffee
with. There will be a great mental connection with mutual chemistry and you can expect a long
first meeting! You can expect your heart to be pumping, the sky to
seem bluer and the birds to be chirping! Other agencies recommend
that even if you clearly don't like someone - you should see that
person again. This is absurd.
After one months membership.
 You need to inform
MPI with written pleasant feedback by fax, email
or letter of the most appropriate introductions
you have had so far, and perhaps rank them in order- 1, 2, 3, 4
etc (if you are comfortable with that). Please include pleasant feedback on
what qualities you've liked most in each client, e.g. perhaps good
conversationalist, lovely eyes, made me feel special etc. This helps MPI to offer
you the most appropriate profiles NOT the biggest quantity of
profiles in the future. Please, no feedback via SMS.
At MPI the emphasis is on quality single professional appropriate
matches, not on mere quantity.
MPI can usually now give you a better indication of your Introducability,
i.e. how many single professional introductions you might be offered in a given period
of time. In general, as MPI understands more about you and your
relationship requirements, you can expect future introductions to
be more appropriate but less in mere quantity.
MPI should now also be in a position to recommend you as an
option to potentially suitable new clients, including live, as they are
completing their 2 hour joining process.
 After you request another introduction,
MPI will
engage the profile selection system and select an existing or
joining client as a profile match option for you. These
introductions are referred to as free on-going passive
introductions for clients who have proven to be pleasant
and realistic Remember, at MPI the emphasis is on quality NOT
quantity!
You are NOT pressured into meeting someone you really dont want
to meet. Also after you have agreed to meet, you dont have to
meet if you have spoken to the person and changed your mind just
inform MPI. From time to time, MPI may also contact you when
MPI feels it has a particularly good profile match for you or
another item/issue of potential interest to you. You can also
expect to receive pre-alerts from time to time.
"Groundhog Day"
If you find yourself repeating the same unsuccessful behaviour and
presentation in seeking a partner, MPI can help through
positive and proactive feedback. We can show you how a potential
partner sees you. Even non-clients can sometimes take
advantage of self-improvement courses. MORE>>
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